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Why I should have kept it to myself
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The new beau was supposed to come up Saturday. Got stuck in the woods, sent me a text message saying he would call. Hasn't. I have left 3 messages and sent an e-mail. Either he's dead or he's no longer interested. I'm betting on the latter. Never saw it coming. Am stupid. Have spent 2 days crying. Hate life.
08:44 AM
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You're NOT stupid. You're brave to put yourself out there and risk.
Moreover, if he's so passive-agressive and cowardly as to break up with you by not calling, then you are well rid of him.
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I forgot to mention, I am keeping the DVD he left at my house.
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Posted by Watergirl at October 25, 2005 09:06 AM
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Oh honey. Men are the scum of the earth, with a few notable exceptions.
I second Dreadmouse's observation that anyone who would handle it this way isn't someone you want to be with, but I know that doesn't make you feel any better right now. What would probably make you feel better is making a voodoo doll and sticking pins in his boy parts. Do it! Do it!
Ahem. Sorry. Oh, and just another observation - your post sounds a lot like Bridget Jones' Diary; as much as it's not supposed to be funny, the delivery was. As my favorite all-out chick flick says, "laughter through tears is mah favorite emotion."
Chin up, girl. We're all out here pulling for you.
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I should have also told y'all that the stupid part is that if he were to call, there's a 98% chance all would be forgiven. Flowers would increase those odds.
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Posted by Watergirl at October 25, 2005 12:14 PM
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I've heard my female friends mourn that there isn't an equivalent "I'm sorry I messed up" or "I was thinking of you" gift to give guys. Most lads I know don't mind flowers much, but we don't crave them either.
As for forgiving him, that's not necessarily stupid. He should have to crawl a little, however, unless he has a darned fine reason for not calling. Like being dead, or struck by lightning at the very least.
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Sorry to hear this news Michele...I know how it must hurt. Wish there was something I could say that would help you, but I know from personal experience that time really is the only thing that helps...
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Posted by Angeler at October 29, 2005 02:11 PM
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